Sacrifices To The Business Gods
Running a business means making a sacrifice or two, both professional and personal. With summer officially over, fewer personal sacrifices need to be made: festivals are winding down, vacations are recent memories, and everyone has their minds back to work or school.
Not so for the small business owner and operator. They never stop. At least I didn’t this past summer.
Putting Work First
There were many events, parties, and get togethers I couldn’t attend. It got so depressing, I avoided using Facebook since everyone was talking and posting pictures of the fun they were having. It wears down the spirit knowing you missed out on so much with the people you love. But when you’re in charge, that’s one of the sacrifices you have to make; putting work before your personal life.
In early May, I took a weekend job to make ends meet financially. Studio work was slow and I had my eye on landing an office space. I gave up the prime hours of my weekends to make extra cash to afford renting the office. It was the best move I made professionally this year (so far) and I don’t regret working to make this dream a reality. But it came with a cost, a personal one. One that I’ve had to repeat to friends all summer, “I can’t go. I’m working.”
I put work first because I wanted it to succeed, and I knew the price I would pay for that effort. Even now, I make those choices everyday. It’s impossible to cram everything into every free moment with no regard to burn out. I can’t sacrifice my well being just for a few hours of fun. It will drag down the most valuable thing I have: my health.
Taking Care of the Boss
While business has slowly picked up, it’s important to take care of the one in charge. Sacrificing all the time will make work a terrible place to be and ruin the point of going solo. I did take a few small trips over the summer to alleviate my itch for traveling. I have one more trip planned in the next few weeks which will have to hold me over till next year.
On the smaller scale, taking a half day from the office to just catch up with house-hold chores is sometimes relaxing. Even one day off a week to do nothing is enjoyable, until I get bored and end up back at the office later. It’s a curse wanting to work so much. As long as I can find enjoyment in small things, I don’t feel quite as bad when I miss the bigger things due to work.
There’s no reason not to make plans for bigger vacations next year. It’s just a matter of keeping clients in the know of when you won’t be available. Everyone is entitled to some time off, and your clients will completely understand. And it’s all about balancing work and personal life.
I’ve pushed my personal life aside for a while but I know it’s only temporary. If I earn enough to not need my weekend job, maybe I’ll bid them farewell or take a month off during their slower season. Being in charge means I have to make all the big decisions. I have to pick what is best for myself in tandem with what’s best for my business. It’s only just started, so I’m sure I have lots of time to learn.